PRESENCE – Women Want It All
We Had A BREAKTHROUGH…She Felt UNDERSTOOD!!! Men, The Power Of Presence, This Is A Powerful Lesson For Us All….
All women want to feel understood and heard. They also require a man’s presence in their life. Many men forget this or do not even know this about a woman. Men are wired naturally to FIX things and we have a desire to come up with a solution when a woman express a problem or how they feel. Women do not always want things fixed. Sure they want the toilet fixed or the dryer working again but when it comes to them expressing, that’s another set of rules for the game.
I have to often catch myself from following my desire to fix my Queens problem to just listening and being present. Here’re 3 simple steps that I take to help be present with my Queen:
1. I stop everything I am doing and focus on her.
2. I listen and understand where she is coming from as if I was the one in that situation.
3. Lastly, I wait till she’s done and I ask her if she would like any solution or just wanted me to listen.
Often, I have to repeat in my head: “Just listen to her and don’t say anything.” This really helps me from trying to dive in and solve her problem when she really just wants to express herself. It’s like a guy saying he would like to make more money and everyone comes up to him giving him a million opportunities. He may have been stating he wanted more money but not necessarily asking for opportunities.
Check out the video above and share it if you believe it would benefit you. Beware- this is a raw video we made to help in the moment….tears of joy were present initially. Enjoy and make today count!
