Monthly Archives: February 2017

MLBD #6: The Problem Is You Think You Have Time

What if, at the beginning of your life, someone told you that you are dying? Would you continue to live your life in the same manner that you do now? Probably not.

We all have dreams of things that we’d like to do and goals that we’d like to achieve, but many do not take action. Why is this? Simply put, we think we have time. The truth is that life is short and we really do not know how much time we actually have. A perfect reason to take action today!

What is it that your heart is calling you to do? Do you want to start a business? Are you trying to find the love of your life? Whatever it is that you desire, go after your dreams. Don’t put it off until tomorrow. Make a declaration and schedule the time on your calendar to take action.

You are special. You have unique gifts that you want to share with the world. Perhaps you know there is something more out there for you, but you’re not sure what it is. Write down three things that bring you joy and excitement and brainstorm how you can spend every moment living in a happy, wonderful state.

Feed your spirit on a daily basis. Try meditation, journaling, spending time with loved ones, or any other activity that revives your soul.

Life is short and you deserve to be authentically happy. If you are carrying fear, pain, and suffering, the only person you are hurting is yourself. Release these negative states of emotion and begin living the life you desire and deserve!


What is your big vision about life? What feeds your spirit? Leave a comment!

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Make today count!

MLBD #5: Master Money- Don’t Let It Master You

Finances are an important pillar of Master Life by Design. Today, we’ll be sharing real world principles that can help anyone improve their financial situation.

First, you need to know why you want to become a master of your money. What will drive you when things get tough?  What will keep you disciplined?  Write out all of these reasons.

Your beliefs are very important when it comes to mastering your money.  We adopt belief systems from a young age, including those related to money. When you’re in significant debt, it’s easy to feel that you’ll never get out of your current situation.  You need to switch your thoughts and adopt a belief that you’re making positive changes in your finances.  Identify what beliefs you’ve had about money in the past, but also capture new empowering thoughts that you will have regarding your finances.

When mastering your money, the first step is eliminating your debt. This will take sacrifices, but remember, it’s not always going to be like this.

Once you start paying off your debt, begin saving a percentage of your income instead of a set dollar amount, so you can adjust in the event of an income increase or decrease.  Live by the “pay yourself first” principle and save money first.  It’s also important to know your monthly expenses so you can determine how much you want in the bank for an emergency.

It’s also important to start developing a mindset of abundance and giving back.  This is a blessing to others and lights us up on the inside.  It can be something small such as a cup of coffee.  These small steps will help to condition you to come from a place of abundance rather than scarcity.

Consider joining forces with an accountability partner, consulting the expertise of a fiduciary, or checking out a few great books such as MONEY Master the Game by Tony Robbins and Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker.


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Make today count!

MLBD #4: SEX: Say “YES” To Your Partner!

When determining what you want in an ideal partner, it’s so important to get clear on what you desire in the sexual/intimate experience.  After all, this intimacy brings a couple closer together.  There is much power in saying “yes” to your partner’s desire for intimacy.

So, why is it so important to say yes to your partner?

First, saying yes to your partner’s desire for sex provides certainty.  Certainty should be the number one need fulfilled in an intimate relationship.  At home is the primary place where certainty should be fulfilled.  If it is given, it will not be sought elsewhere.

Just imagine if you constantly said “no” to your partner’s desire.  Imagine these no’s stacking over time.  This puts your partner in a vulnerable position.  Soon that partner will become conditioned to the idea that they will always hear “no” if they ask, and eventually, they may stop asking.  This can lead to seeking sexual or emotional fulfillment outside of the relationship, whether it be in the form of attention from another person or with pornography.

If you find yourself hesitating to say “yes” to your partner’s desires, check in and see where your focus is.  What you’re focused on is what you’re going to feel.  Instead of focusing on the reasons to say “no,” focus on how much you love your partner and how great the experience will be.  This will help to shift your view.

Saying “yes” to your partner’s desire is just one piece that builds the lasting bond and trust between you as a couple. Each one of you deserves to be in a happy, loving, and passionate relationship.  Know your partner’s love language and consciously speak it every day.  Know and ask your partner what turns them on.  Keep open communication and continue to give to each other.


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We’re back in San Diego!  We’ll be doing meet ups in the local area, so stay tuned to our Master Life By Design Facebook group for details.

Make today count!